Hello, my sweet two-and-a-half year old! Well, you’re a tad older than that, but let mummy pretend for just a bit longer.
You’re such a big, grown up girl now, I can’t believe it. You show us this every day by the way your behavior is changing, the conversations you hold and the questions you ask. Generally, I would be sad about you growing older because I truly want you to be my baby forever but you know what? I am really enjoying having a little friend right now, someone who can ask if I’m feeling alright, can laugh at a joke and sing along to a song with.
So, lets backtrack to the months that have passed and what you’ve been up to.
In the middle of January, Mummy took a trip to Singapore to get some nice things for you and a little bit of head clearing. You had such a great time with your Dadima while I navigated the underpasses and tube to get all those little things I wished I could have for you for so long. You got quite the haul, a suit case full in fact. Your favorite thing of all is the wooden tea set in a box, which is my favorite thing too. We play “tea set” all the time now. You make the sounds for things like pouring hot water over the tea bag and you love slicing up the little cakes after you decorate them.
In early February we made the decision to change the apartment we were going to buy. Instead, we’ll be getting a 4 bedroom apartment closer to where we currently live. It seems great, fingers crossed it all goes through and you can have the “green! black! blue!” bedroom you’ve been asking for.
Your friend Natalie came over for one last play date with you before she moved to the UK. You played with the tea sets together, watched some Miffy and had snacks. It was a nice, quiet morning. We’re so sad that Nuanart, Robert, Stephen and Natalie have left us and we hope they feel at home in London soon.
On the 27th of February, Daddy left for the UK. We had 9 days to ourselves but they were very hectic. You got quite sick with a lung infection, I had to drive you to the hospital at midnight where you got a chest Xray (which you hated), an anti biotic and 4 medicines to make you feel better. You loved the doctor though, I don’t remember his name but he was a really nice man. When you’re sick, you like to use the Charlie and Lola phrase: “I’m really ever so not well”. Over and over and over again. Its cute, for a while.
While Daddy was away, we found the love of Starfall.com which is a website with educational games. You could sit there all day playing the games over and over. You’re getting better with your alphabet and the gingerbread man game is your favorite. Whenever I open my laptop now, you ask to play starfall and I’m happy to oblige.
On the 8th of March, you and I made the trek to London. Admittedly, I was very scared! It had been a long time since I travelled alone with you and your tantrums were at an all time high. You did FABULOUS though. I couldn’t believe what a good girl you were. I could have taken 10 of you with me. You sat in your business class seat, watched Enchanted with your big ol’ headphones on and snacked a little. You were a bit confused on the 2nd flight when you couldn’t recline your seat, which I had to chuckle about. I see you hate economy as much as I do. You again, did so well that people commented on how they wouldn’t have even known there was a toddler there. I was SO very proud of you.
You absolutely adored London. You still keep asking if you can go and play golf with Simba. You ate and ate and ate. Every morning you’d have more breakfast than a basketballer could handle. You actually ate meat too!
Uncle Rupen and Jayna got engaged, the primary reason for us taking the journey. You managed to fall asleep in the middle of all the excitement so I took you home.
You loved taking the bus, as well as the train. Its more hussle and bussle than I could handle on a daily basis. You’d sit in your stroller and comment on the world passing you by. We took you to Build a Bear where you made a dog which you named Andi, presumably after our friend Andi. We went to the Zoo where you wanted to ride the Camels and go on the Cariousel, and the best place of all was the Aquarium. I’ve never seen you so happy in one place before. You sang the Spot Under the Sea song over and over and stared at the sharks for long periods of time.
We caught up with Gareth and Andi too. You were a little wary at first but warmed up quite quickly and had a great time inconveniencing the two of them through out their meal. It was a short get together, but a good one. Thank you to Gareth and Andi for making the trek out to see us during their busy schedule.
Easter came with a big surprise for you…SNOW!. My goodness did you love that. We didn’t have a snow suit or waterproof gloves so we improvised and made you one with jackets and scarves. You attempted to make a mini snow man. The Lindt bunnies that were left by the Easter Bunny held no interest once the snow hung around. It snowed until we left and you still ask about it.
We had such a wonderful time staying with Sharad Ada, Neela Aunty, Nikesh, Jimmy, Uncle Rupen and Simba. Thank you so much for having us and making our holiday special. Ria still talks about you all, especially Simba.
Once we got back home in India, the fun and games were over. After sleeping with me in the bed for so long, you were not easily swayed into sleeping in your own bed again. You were up until 3am at some points, I was beat. Thankfully you’ve gotten back into the swing of things and *gasp* you even take a nap in there now! See? I’m typing this as you’re sleeping in your own bed in your own room. Wow. I didn’t think that day would really come.
Now that its summer, we’ve started taking you swimming at the Novotel. It has a nice little pool where you can stand and wade around in without any help. You will willingly stay in for hours until I drag you out screaming. Unfortunately we haven’t been for a couple of weeks, we are both quite sick at the moment with an awful bug thats been going around. You got it first and it escalated into a throat infection, yucky. I knew you felt down right miserable but I didn’t quite know how bad until I got it myself. You’re on antibiotics and you’re doing better. You haven’t had a fever for a few days now, just as I’m getting mine. You’re left with a cough and a croaky voice which is better than all the added things you had before. I hope we get over this fast.
I’ve enrolled you in school, you should start in August. Wow. You’re so excited, all thats left is to get you toilet trained. We should be able to cross that hurdle before then, I assume. I can’t wait to buy you all your little things you’ll need and maybe throw in a neat lunch bento every now and then.
I’ve been teaching you a little bit of Hindi in the last few days. You can say “my name is Ria” and count to 10. Thats a pretty good start. I hope Daddy takes cue and starts teaching you more, I’m really not very good.
My little snuggle bunny, please will you stay the same forever? Every day you look right into my eyes and smile so big. You grab my cheeks and kiss me on the lips. You rub your forehead and nose against mine and cuddle me so tight. I am really going to miss that when you grow out of it, which is inevitable. I could lose many nights of sleep over this, but instead I will savour each and every moment I get of you being mummy’s little girl.
I love you.
Love Mummy
xoxoxox
We also got some sad news about your Great Aunty Elizabeth. She is very sick and we’re all feeling sad. Its tough being far away and not being able to help out. Aunty Elizabeth; we love you and we miss you very much.